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Saturday, November 30, 2013

Six Word Saturday and Stealing Sunday:

6 word Saturday:


"black friday madness; over...we think!

Stealing Sunday Meme Q&A (not sure why they post it up on Saturday, but oh well. still fun to do!)


What would you totally eat right now?:--chicken wings

Do you always wear a certain piece of jewelry?:--yes my heart necklace given to me by my love

What kind of jeans do you like?:--the ones that fit! i like pajama jeans too.


What's something on your want list?:--to get a tablet and to get married


Is animal print tacky?:--depends. on shirts or scarfs NO. in pants. leggings, jeans...YES!


Give me a good quote that you like.:--"you have to believe in yourself before others do"


Do you bite your nails?:--not anymore :)


What kind of smells do you like?:--the good ones! haha! florals, and a man's cologne on a good looking guy.


Do you wear perfume or cologne?:--yes!!


What do you think is overrated?:--lots! right now let's go with justin beiber and black friday


Next movie you want to see?:--12 years a slave. some have said i look a lot like the new and upcoming actress in the movie. here is blog link i created for comparison. what do you think?


Would you change your eye color if you could?:--blue


And what are your goals for the remainder of this year?:--to continue to get better health wise and my sight to continue to get better too. also, start making smoothies!


When is the last time you were at the hospital?--oct. 14, 2013 for my second eye surgery. 


Who introduced you to your current significant other?-- If you’re single, who introduced you to your last ex?--my current love and i met at a mutual friends b-day party/event at TGIF, we just happened to be sitting right next to each other. how ironic and coincidental. have loved him ever since and still do! 4 years and still going :) <3

~eloquently rambling...

Friday, November 29, 2013

The Truth about Black Friday...

happy friday! so i had a good day today. chatted with my love and went to a local consignment shop and did some $0.69 shopping on books and clothes...wahoo! no black friday lines, all moved quiet smoothly. so here is really my take on black friday. let's call it what it really is; i posted it on facebook too! here is the link to my page (if you want to add me as a friend :) https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=5239603https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=5239603

"Black Friday should just be called the "Hunger Games". Let's think about this... at least one person from each family is chosen to go and stand in line and fight for a deal. You may die, but if you are the last one left you get your prize of a $98 40 inch TV and praised by all. Ohh...the rest of us are watching you and the madness unfold on the 6pm and 11pm news. IJS. #blackfriday #itreallyisthehungergames" "and may the odds be ever in your favor!"

did you all brave the black friday madness?

~eloquently rambling...

Thursday, November 28, 2013

Happy Thanksgiving!!

so, no blog hops or anything like that today. i hope you all are spending time with family and friends near and far (hey, there is Skype and FaceTime now!). i want to wish all of you readers/bloggers a happy, safe, and "filling" Thanksgiving! cannot wait to read all about it soon!

HAPPY THANKSGIVING EVERYONE!!!


~eloquently rambling...

Wednesday, November 27, 2013

Wordless Wednesday

i sure am thankful for all of you out in the blogger world! thank you for all your sweet comments and for viewing my blog. here is a little something for this "wordless wednesday". happy thanksgiving... in case i am not able to blog tomorrow ;) also i am linking up with Random Wednesday @ Because Shanna Said So



~eloquently rambling...

Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Weekly Wishes...

here are my wishes for the week: i am linking up here with weekly wishes here (click the link pic below)

--wishing to get my days right this week. i honestly thought it was Saturday when i woke up and i did not have to come in to work. imagine my disappointment when i realized it was Tuesday :( 

--i need to find some cool Christmas gifts for folks...i am working on it. i need to cash in on my free gift cards from rewards sites.

--for the weather to warm up or stop raining a bit. it is still fall not winter yet!

--i wish to have a great week with some positive energy, good food, and family, and a chat or two with my love!

~eloquently rambling...

Monday, November 25, 2013

So what do you think???

so have you all seen that movie 12 days a slave? i have not yet, but now i need too since many people have commented on how i sort of resemble one of the actresses. the woman on there by the name of Lupita Nyong'o. i am flattered to say the least, but i think she is prettier :) what do you all think? do we look similar? here we are side by side. love to hear what you all think!! btw, how is your monday? almost thanksgiving time!!! lots to be thankful for!!

 
this is me...Eloquent Rambles

this is Lupita Nyong'o

~eloquently rambling...

Sunday, November 24, 2013

A thankful Sunday Social!

wow! it is Sunday and that means Sunday Social. it is almost Thanksgiving too, so this Sunday let's talk about what we are thankful for. i have sooo many that i think i will keep it to 10 :)

Sunday Social


i am thankful for...

--the good Lord above!
--my family and friends
--my love
--food to eat (happy thanksgiving to everyone!!!)
--clothes to wear
--technology (like the iphone and skype)
--good doctors (one helped keep my sight)
--a good sale
--a job :)
--people all around

~eloquently rambling...

Saturday, November 23, 2013

Six word Saturday and Stealing Sunday!


"Saturday spent at the doctor's office"

yep that is right! so today is saturday and i went to see the doctor. the only thing nice about saturday appt. is that i do not have to take off work. i am not to sure how i feel about her as she was a bit forceful and not listening. then she started asking me questions i did not know the answer to or heck, no one knows the answers too such as why do you have this and this? ummm, you are the doctor, you need to tell me why i have this and this, that is why i came in to see you. she ran test and then got me scheduled for a new appt. to come back. i think i am going to switch doctors. not a fan.

Stealing Sunday Thanksgiving Edition Meme's!



1. What do you have for breakfast on Thanksgiving?--usually this and that b/c busy prepping the meal for dinner

2. Do you go to a Thanksgiving parade or watch one on TV?--the Macy's Day parade on TV (would like to go in person one day!) 

3. Do you serve appetizers, lunch, or snacks during the day?--just this and that.  

4. What are the traditional favorites?--turkey, cranberry sauce, stuffing  

5. What new recipes will you try this year?--not too sure. i am sure some veggie dish or maybe an added hen to the mix

6. What part of the meal do you never compromise?--turkey(the wing), stuffing, a veggie, and dessert.  

7. Who gets to carve the turkey?--daddio!

8. Family style around the table or buffet style and everyone sits wherever there’s room?--around the table. the food is set out buffet style

9. How many will be at your table this year?--4 to 6 (hopefully in the future with my own family there will be more)

10. Once you're at the table, do you say grace or a toast or does everyone go around and say what they're thankful for?--we say grace

11. Cranberry sauce… yay or nay?--yay!

12. What time do you eat Thanksgiving Dinner?--5pm or 6pm  

13. Three best pies for Thanksgiving dessert?--pumpkin, apple, or cheesecake(that counts as a pie right?) 

14. Do you have dessert right after the main meal or later on?--right after  

15. Favorite leftover?--all of it! makes a great lunch for work the next few days!

~eloquently rambling...

Friday, November 22, 2013

Sorry so late :(

hey all! happy friday. busy day so sorry i am SOOO late with this post and joining all the blog hops. so far so good. things in general are and will get better. here we go with some of my favorite friday link-ups: Feeling Beachie with the friday 4 and happies and crappies:


Feeling Beachie

1. i do not remember the last time i truly did RELAX

2. sometimes i wish WORD PROBLEMS were NEVER invented

3 i love when someone SENDS AN E-CARD to you

4. if i could, i would do VISITING MY LOVE all day!


The Vintage Modern Wife and Brunch With Amber: Happies and Crappies Link Up

happies:

--got october files up to date
--had an overall quiet and good day
--i am feeling a lot better health wise
--my room is not so messy

crappies:

--i was by myself in the office
--i have a doctors appt in the am...yes on SATURDAY! no fun :(
--i was told some hurtful things by those that are dear to me
--i am missing diet coke and waiting for an apology.

~eloquently rambling...

Thursday, November 21, 2013

Boys Behind the Blog...

this Boys Behind the Blog is going to be answered by my oh so cute younger brother.
 
oh, he is precious in this "Pink" is he not?

1. favorite band/musician?--i love rock music. right now i am into the group called "stained"

2. your first cd/tape?--it was a mixed tape of Cameroon music.

3. first concert?--i do not go to concerts much, but would like too. when i went on a cruise, i went to the "rock concert" show they had. it was good!

4. favorite thanksgiving food?--the pie of course. i have a sweet tooth...well, more like sweet teeth.

5. finish the sentence...i am thankful for?--i am thankful for the things i have.

~eloquently rambling...


 

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Wordless Wednesday...

since i really have nothing to write or say to anyone today, i will leave you with this: 

 

~eloquently quiet (for today at least)

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Words that make me wonder how you feel

hello all! hope you have a great Tuesday! i have a little bit of an issue and i know you all can provide some thoughts to it. so what do you think of the word "DITTO"? it was cute in the movie Ghost, but as a way to respond to something sweet that was said...i do not like it. i want a genuine response back not "DITTO". personally i hate that word, it seems like you really do not mean it. what does "DITTO" mean anyway? so here is why i am upset about the word...i was texting with my love and i was all about being sweet to him as always. well, i said to him: "thank you for sticking by and with me, i appreciate that a lot" and his reply was..."DITTO" ugh, i was SOO mad! then i said "i love you, chat with you soon after the game" again i got...you guessed it... "DITTO". ugh. see why that word and i are not friends!! i feel like i derserved more than "ditto" in response.

i could also be taking things very personally right now as i have had a lot going on and a lot of stress as well as we have been back and forth with arguments and knit picking back and forth for a while, so i guess I AM just on the edge with the whole thing and wondering where it is all going from here. i want it to work, but not too sure what to do other than keep to myself and quiet until he comes around b/c i have no energy to fight anymore....that is my goal!

i have also linked up with the Marriage and Relationship Goals link up!

~eloquently rambling...

Monday, November 18, 2013

Weekly Wishes

i hope you all have a happy monday. mine is ok, but i have seen better on monday's. i have an issue that i am dealing with and well, my weekly wishes will explain it all...i hope.

my wishes for the week:

1. i wish to get my work files done...at least the last 5 for october

2. i wish to find out what is wrong with me health wise

3. i wish for my eyes to keep improving

4. my BIGGEST wish for the week is this: i wish my love and i would stop fighting over petty things like what is being posted on facebook, who can see what, if a relationship status should be up there or not, deleting post etc. it is a mess. i just want the mess gone and us back to normal. i hope/wish it can happen for us this week. any advice? back off for a while and let him come back to me or what?

**what are your wishes?

so i am also doing Acting Balanced Monday Quiz--here are the 4 questions

1. According to the source I use for strange and wonderful days, today is Occult Day - are you a believer?--i have no idea what this day is so...not a believer

2. Have you ever attended an auction?  Did you win what you were bidding on?--no, but i would like to be at one for a car or house

3. Have you started your Christmas shopping?  Finished it?--in my head i have. i need to get to ordering

4. How's your weather?--it is wet/rainy today, but not cold; more of damp

~eloquently rambling...

Sunday, November 17, 2013

Sunday Social...All about 4's!

happy Sunday! it is Sunday Social time! this week it is all about 4's so here we go!
Sunday Social

1. 4 jobs you have had in your life--night staff at my college, vpk teacher, organic chemistry lab assistant, and now a student services specialist.

2. 4 movies you will watch over and over again--the devil wears prada, sex and the city the movie, nigerian movies, and salt

3. 4 places you have lived--pensacola, florida; chicago, sicly, and tallahassee, florida

4. 4 of your favorite foods-- mac and cheese, lasagna, watermelon, and hamburgers

5. 4 things you always carry with you--phone, gum, my necklace, and , wallet

6. 4 places on vacation--cozumel, disney world, california, washington d.c.

**what are your Sunday 4?

~eloquently rambling...

Saturday, November 16, 2013

6 word Saturday and...Part 1 of Ask Meme

6 word Saturday...


"got my pictures off the camera"

--phew, it was a long time coming! over 1200 photos downloaded now. yea! now to go through them and take out the blurry ones.

part 1 of Ask Meme: click HERE to go to the blog :)

1. What’s your favorite candle scent?-- anything that is not a food scent; flowers
2. What female celebrity do you wish was your sister?-- Jill Scott
3. What male celebrity do you wish was your brother?--Denzel Washington 
4. How old do you think you’ll be when you get married?--haha, I hope before I am 35 (I am 29 now) 
5. Do you know a hoarder?--no 
6. Can you do a split?--LOL! does I used to count? not anymore 
7. How old were you when you learned how to ride a bike?--5 or 6 years of age 
8. How many oceans have you swam in?--The Atlantic and the Pacific Ocean 
9. How many countries have you been to?--7, i think (need to go to more)
10. Is anyone in your family in the military?--yes, my mother :) US Navy 
11. Have you named any of your body parts?--yes :) 
12. If you had a child today, what would you name him/her?--boy=Kingston girl=Allison
13. What’s the worst grade you got on a test?--i have failed a test before. the lowest was a 58% (it was organic chemistry...do not judge me, still cam out with a B!!) 
14. What was your favorite TV show when you were a child?-- Flinstones
15. What did you dress up as on Halloween when you were eight?--do not remember, probably a Spice Girl
16. Have you read any of the Harry Potter, Hunger Games or Twilight series?--yes
17. Would you rather have an American accent or a British accent?--British. i can go back and forth already
18. Did your mother go to college?--yes and beyond
19. Are your grandparents still married?--my grandfather has passed, but yes, married until he passed away 
20. Have you ever taken karate lessons?--briefly 
21. Do you know who Kermit the frog is?--yes, he is a cute little and skinny green frog...lol
22. What was the first amusement park you’ve been to?--Disney World, i am from Florida now! 
23. What language, besides your native language, would you like to be fluent in?--Chinese and Spanish 
24. Do you spell the color as grey or gray?--gray
25. Is your father bald?--no :)

~eloquently rambling...

Friday, November 15, 2013

The Friday 4 :) and Happies and Crappies!

happy friday! i am over here today at "The Friday 4" with Feeling Beachie. fill in the blanks with your responses and join in on the fun!

Feeling Beachie

missed calls make me sad because when you try and call back, they never pick up

Whenever someone says that i look good I get very confident in myself

I know I should never doubt those i love, but sometimes I can’t help it

 I have fond memories of disney world from childhood 

also, here are my "happies and crappies" for the week. first time linking up!!
The Vintage Modern Wife and Brunch With Amber: Happies and Crappies Link Up

happies:
--it was a short work week!
--ate a really good sonny's lunch
--got a hug from a friend!
--my tummy troubles have seem to go down a bit this week!
--i can now see 20/40 out of one eye for now, when before i could only see objects moving in a blur in front of my face.

crappies:
--did not get much files done at work
--got some not so great news health wise
--have to pay bills
--still cannot drive per doctors orders :(
--my love is SOOO busy we hardly have time to chat anymore :( double sad face :(

~eloquently rambling...

Thursday, November 14, 2013

Being Thankful

happy Thursday! so i decided it is time to do my "I am thankful for" list for this month of thanks/Thanksgiving. i am joining the link-up here at The Harrells on Hood i am also at the "lovely blog hop" with Her&Nicole. so browse around, find some blogs and say hello :)

i am thankful week 1 and 2 here we go...

 
i am thankful...

Nov. 1-- to be alive

Nov. 2--for my sight as i almost lost it

Nov. 3--for good and knowledgeable doctors

Nov. 4--hulu :) love being able to catch up on shows later on in the week

Nov.5--for people

Nov. 6.--to have a job

Nov. 7-- for my love! i put this one on this date b/c it is our anniversary date :) 4 years and i love him more and more each day.

Nov.8--for money making apps

Nov. 9--for this site called bubblews where you are paid to write about anything--if you want a link to it, leave me a comment and i will get it to you.

Nov. 10--for my blog and how it is slowly but surely growing

Nov. 11--for smiles and hugs

Nov. 12--for my family(they have been taking me around everywhere since i cannot drive yet due to my eye surgery)

Nov. 13--for co-workers that take me to lunch. it was nice to have something different to eat other than left over dinner.

Nov. 14--for my snack and diet coke stash as i needed it this morning.

~eloquently rambling...

Wednesday, November 13, 2013

Would You Rather??

happy Wednesday! it is trash day for us in my part of Florida! (random i know) it is also Would You Rather Wednesday with my friend here at: Innerworkings of the Female Mind

 
1. Would you rather be able to stop time or fly?---i want to fly. save on time and gas! now you all know the song "i believe i can fly" came to mind and you are singing it right now.

2. Would you rather get caught singing in the shower or spying on your crush/neighbor?---singing in the shower...and i think i have been caught doing so! opps!!
 
3. Would you rather only be able to whisper or only shout?---whisper :) then i can be close to those i love and probably sound really cute too :)

4. Would you rather be stranded on an island alone or with someone you hate?---i would rather be alone.

5. Would you rather go on a magic carpet ride with Jasmine or take Cinderella to the ball?---magic carpet ride with Jasmine b/c she can show me the world :)

~eloquently rambling...

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Weekly Wishes and Never Ever Ever

happy Tuesday! this is my first time with this link up here called:
 The Nectar Collective
here are my wishes for the week:

1. i wish to get the files in the file cabinet done this week so i can catch up.
2. i wish to get a random gift from someone--anything, send me something, i need a surprise
3. i wish this week for my eyes to keep getting better (i had eye surgery on both eyes and healing has been slow and sight coming back has been slow too)
4. i wish to find a good deal at the store
5. i wish to take a walk this week. the weather has been so nice i need to take advantage of it.

let's play Never Ever Ever...

http://acompletewasteofmakeup.com/never-ever-ever-20/

never ever ever...
--will i not like a hug (especially from a man!)
--will i eat peanut butter (allergies)
--will i say no to chocolate
--will i not want to go on a cruise
--will i say "no sleep, i do not need you" (ha!)
--will i understand how outfits look SO good on other people, but not so much on me :(

~eloquently rambling...

Monday, November 11, 2013

Thank you Vets!!

Happy Veteran's Day! Thank you for your service to our country. It is because of you mens and women that we are FREE! This also includes my mother who is not only a Veteran, but has also given 24 years of service (she is now retired) to the United States Navy as an officer and eye doctor who has given our troops  and vets the "sight to fight" for our freedom. Thank you!!! What does this day mean to you?

in other news: i am doing laundry, going through my blog list, and trying to get over this runny tummy...ick!  come on tums--please work!!


also, i am answering some/these questions over at Acting Balanced blog for the "Monday Quiz"

1. It is Veteran's Day in the US and Remembrance Day in Canada - are you participating in any special events or doing anything to honor those who served?s.--no special events, but i have and did thank my mother as she is now a Veteran as the post above states 

2. How far are you willing to drive before it becomes better to fly?--600 miles

3. Fresh cranberries are back in stores - Wayne is happy because I'm making crisps again, do you cook/bake with fresh cranberries? Recipes?--not really, the only time cranberry come out is for thanksgiving cranberry sauce and maybe cranberry juice. 

4. We turned on our heat for the first time this week here in SC... how long has the heat been on at your house? What temperature do you set your furnace at?--i live in Florida. the heat is not on yet. in fact it is nice comfortable 72 degrees. it is cold in the morning, warms up in the afternoon, and then cold again at night. ahhh, Florida! 

~eloquently rambling...

Sunday, November 10, 2013

Stealing Sunday Q and A

hey there again! whoa! this is 2 post this sunday...lucky you! so i came across this new blog hop about the "what's what meme and decided to join. you all know how i LOVE to have questions given to me to answers since i have permanant writers block it seems..haha! well here is the link and the questions: 


i am also here at Sunday Social as well :) 

The What's What Meme 

What is on your bed right now?--my phone and sheets

What’s your favorite word or phrase?--"really?"

What is the best ice cream flavor?--extra creamy vanilla 

Did you wake up smiling this morning?
--not really smiling, but happy to be up

Is there something in your life you used to have, and now miss?--my freedom and flexibility to come and go as i need to. ah the joys of moving back home...eh

What major company would you like to work for?--the CDC-Centers for Disease Control. i did my masters in Public Health after all :) hire me please!!

What time do you wake up on a typical morning?--work mornings: 5:45am, weekends: 8:30am

What holiday makes you sad?--Columbus Day b/c for some reason it is not a day off for me or the school children in Florida

Where does a good night’s sleep rank on your priorities?--somewhere in the middle

One song that makes you cry?--Butterfly Kisses

 How old was your mom when she had you?--i think she was 31 or 32

When is the last time you went to the beach?--over the summer. sad, b/c i live less than a 10 minute drive to one here in good ole Florida.

What is the most random object around you?--a random wooden stick that is used to clean teeth (no not a toothpick, it is like a wooden chewing stick).

 What is your favorite sushi?--veggie kind. i am allergic to fish

What food do you find disgusting?--squash and gizzards

If you could have any type of dog in the world, what would it be?--a german sheppard

What was the last meal that you made for yourself?--a hearty veggie, chicken, and beef, soup/gumbo 

Is the hard drive on your computer full or getting close to being full?-no

Are there any songs that you prefer the acoustic version over the regular version?-no song in particular, but i do prefer rock music in the acoustic form. 

well, there it is! my first one of What's What! hope to be back next sunday!

~eloquently rambling...

Sunday Social & Possible Move?

happy Sunday! you know that means Sunday Social! All about Thanksgiving :) who does not love to eat right? 

Sunday Social

that is what the spread tends to look like...

this is what my plate tends to look like! greedy; ha! do not judge!!

ok here are the questions and answers for this week:

1. favorite thanksgiving memory--all the family around and me actually cooking the turkey right where is was moist and not dry :)

2. favorite thanksgiving food: stuffing and the turkey wing :)

3. thanksgiving tradition: someone is almost always over for the meal and also my father trying to bribe me to stand in those CRAZY BLACK FRIDAY lines!!! umm...NO!
this is craziness. REFUSE to do it, let's wait until cyber monday please!

4. thanksgiving picture...
the 4 of us...are we not precious!

5. what are you most looking forward to this thanksgiving: i am looking forward to my eyes continuing to get better so that i am not tricked into eating chicken rather than turkey...LOL, and i am super excited for the 5 days off for thanksgiving this year! wed-sun! thanks school president!! :)

ok, now here is my question: blogspot.com is acting weird. should i keep it or make the move to another blogging site like say wordpress?? thoughts? thanks!

~eloquently rambling...

Saturday, November 9, 2013

6 Word Saturday-panties and juice!

Click here to play along!

"victoria's secret underwear and orange juice!"

whoa! ok that is a crazy set of 6 words! well, i did organize my underwear drawer and i still have a lot, but the ones that still had tags on them...ie have never worn them, i put away in a bag. i must have over 40 pairs of panties from Victoria's Secret. you know that little coupon book that you get and the freebie coupons in the mail, well, over the many many years of being a faithful shopper, i sure have earned my fair share of FREE panties and well, finally had to sort them all out. it is done...phew. so looks like panties will not be on my Christmas list this year!! LOL. and i just had my first taste of orange juice in a long long time. it was good. i could totally drink that whole gallon in the fridge right now. but i happy with my current weight loss so that will be my motivation to stay away from downing it all :) 

--what are your 6 words for this saturday?

~eloquently rambling...

Friday, November 8, 2013

Friday 4 and Weight Loss!

yea! it is Friday and it should be a good one at that! i get to eat some yummy mexican for lunch: chimichanga with rice and beans and chips and salsa. that is my fav, and i could basically just eat the chips and salsa alone and be just fine! i have also lost some weight i am now in the 140's!! wahoo! i was in the 150's before. today i went from 158 lb to 145 lb, a 13 pound weight loss. i feel as if i have lost my butt, but maybe now since my clothes are big on me, that is why i cannot find my butt?? hmmm?? well, i have not been doing much to lose weight other than not eating that much, but with my span of eye surgeries and the anastassia and drops and meds, i have not really had much of an appetite to say the least. i do hope i can continue to keep it off! ok...

now on to the Friday 4 with Hillary at Feeling Beachie

 1. I can’t believe that 2013 IS ALMOST OVER!

 2.  To celebrate MY EYES GETTING BETTER I WILL HOPEFULLY TAKE A TRIP AND LOTS OF PICS.

3. The meaning of life is COMPLICATED; YOU JUST TAKE IT A DAY AT A TIME AND HAVE FAITH.
 4.  I can’t stand BLOGSPOT.COM AT THE MOMENT. IT IS NOT ALLOWING ME TO KEEP UP WITH SOME BLOGGERS ON MY BLOG LIST. I AM MISSING UPDATES THIS WAY :( ANY TIPS ON HOW TO FIX THIS?

~eloquently rambling...

Thursday, November 7, 2013

Words that Scare me and Anniversary

happy Thursday! there was an accident right in front of the entrance of my sub-division last night and it got me thinking of words that scare me. it was a multi-car accident and i do hope that all will be well even though their cars were a mess. here are some words that just somehow bring in some fear to me when i hear them:

hospital, accident, snakes, miscarriage, roach, surgery, fat, break-up, death, cancer, disease, hurricane, unemployment, suicide, hate, liar, fire, un-happy, lost, etc. i am sure there are more, but these are the few that came to my mind right now. what are some words that you would not want to hear/scare you?

now for some happy news...to day my love and i have been together for 4 years!!! Happy Anniversary to us! now, i will say, i did not think we would make it to this day b/c the past 3 months with my eye surgeries, past being brought up on both our sides, and lots of arguing over petty things that brought out other feelings, searching for better jobs, being 5 hrs away, etc. but we did it and the day is here! although it has been really rough, i think it has made us stronger and in some strange way more in love with each other and better communicators. now...let's see if HE will remember and wish us a Happy Anniversary!!

 
 
~eloquently rambling...

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Would you Rather...

i had a writers block so i am so thankful for my new blogging friend over at "Innerworkings of the Female Mind" and her set of questions this Wednesday for "Would your Rather..." here we go:


would you rather...

1.  "be happy for 8hrs/day and poor or sad for 8hrs/day and rich?": hmmm, i think at this point i would rather be sad for 8 hrs a day and rich. money cannot by happiness, but it can sure take off some stress. also there are 24 hours in day and if 8 of them are sad ones, but i can get stuff done and function...i could handle it. and also, you can ALWAYS find something to be happy about. 

2. "live without music or live without tv?": i can live without music and be ok. i got to have my tv an shows and hey, for the music there are always the music awards on tv, so i may not be at a total loss.

3. "have a kangaroo or koala as your pet?": a koala

4. "be invisible or able to read minds?": read minds. that way i can maybe understand men a little better and be able to figure out people's wants and needs better.

5. "have superhuman memory or teleportation?": teleportation for sure! i would be able to travel the world in the blink of an eye and also it would be MUCH easier to see my love anytime and not have him commute 5 hours each way.

~eloquently rambling...

Tuesday, November 5, 2013

Never Ever Ever...

hey Tuesday! trying this "never ever ever" blog hop. here we go:

 http://acompletewasteofmakeup.com/never-ever-ever-19/

NEVER EVER EVER...
--will i not love people
--will i not love sleep
--will i not shop at victoria's secret or bath and body works when they have a sale :) so waiting for the semi-annual sale coming soon!
--will i take up smoking (besides i have asthma)
--will i miss having tummy issues (please go away soon!)
--will i not LOVE a blog hop! (so much fun and creative!)
--will i not love comments on my blog (i do reply back) or making a new blog friend!

there it is for this week. what is your "never ever ever"? and i am also at this blog hop: "grab a friend blog hop"

~eloquently rambling...

Monday, November 4, 2013

let's talk medical stuff...

happy monday to all! i am slowly but surely getting back in the swing of blogging...trying to at least. so i am linking up with Your Doctor's Wife-Medical Monday because i sure have had a lot of medical scares the past 3 months. here we go!

so i think i can link up this week for medical monday. i am and have been thinking about medical school for a while and i still am. i struggled with the sciences in college, but still enjoyed them and graduated with an overall gpa above 3.4. then i went on to do my masters in public health and had a 4.0 gpa. so there is some hope right? that is what i do not know. should i try and get in to a USA school or go for the Caribbean route? rumor has it that Caribbean trained doctors are not as well received by their USA colleges? is this the case? what are some other options in the medical field other than nursing or pa that one can go into and still come out a "doctor"? sometimes i think my chances are slim to none, but there is always a way around something right? what do you all suggest? 

now here is some insight to my medical issue. both of my retina's detached at my young age of 29 (i am still 29). it just happened spontaneously after i recovered from being sick/systemic infection. i guess even though i was taking antibiotics for it, it must have still decided to play with my retina. i have had blurry vision since september. i have had the retina repair surgery with a vitrectomy. i hope to be fully recovered and back to "normal" vision before the new year...perhaps by Christmas time?


and for another link up going on about the kitchen and food...yummo...check out this link up over at Never the Same Spice Twice blog. i sure would love to make this. i am a fan of one pot meals. i bet this paired up with some bread/rolls would be SOOOO good!one pot creamy chicken and noodles. mmm...i can almost smell it now!
One Pot Creamy Chicken and Noodles- simple and easy
~eloquently rambling...